Last Updated on June 30, 2025

The 10 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid When Filing a Wrongful Death Claim in New York

Avoiding these critical errors will help you recover the best compensation possible for the death of a loved one.

Losing a loved one due to someone else's negligence is an overwhelming tragedy. During this emotionally devastating time, legal procedures are often the last thing families want to think about. However, understanding and avoiding critical mistakes in wrongful death claims can mean the difference between securing justice and compensation your family deserves—or losing your legal rights forever.

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At the Porter Law Group, we've seen many families make costly but avoidable mistakes due to grief, misinformation, or unfamiliarity with New York’s wrongful death laws. This comprehensive guide outlines the most common and devastating errors that can jeopardize your claim.

1. Waiting Too Long to Take Legal Action

The Most Costly Mistake of All

The Deadline: New York law imposes a strict two-year deadline from the date of death to file a wrongful death lawsuit. This deadline is absolute and unforgiving.

Why Families Wait:

  • Grieving and managing funeral arrangements
  • Trusting insurance companies will "do the right thing"
  • Thinking they have plenty of time to decide
  • Waiting to see if criminal charges are filed
  • Not understanding the urgency of legal deadlines

The Devastating Consequences: Missing the statute of limitations means permanent loss of your right to compensation, regardless of how strong your case may be or how clearly someone was at fault.

Real Example: A family had overwhelming evidence that a doctor's malpractice caused their mother's death. However, they filed their lawsuit three days after the 2.5-year deadline expired. Despite the strength of their case, the court dismissed it permanently with no possibility of appeal.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Contact an attorney within days or weeks of your loved one's death
  • Don't delay to "think about it" or "see what happens"
  • Remember that consulting an attorney doesn't commit you to filing a lawsuit
  • Understand that evidence disappears quickly, making early action crucial

2. Not Understanding Who Can Actually File a Wrongful Death Lawsuit

The Standing Requirement Trap

The Rule: Only the personal representative (executor or administrator) of the deceased's estate can file a wrongful death claim in New York.

Common Misconceptions:

  • Thinking any family member can file the lawsuit
  • Believing the surviving spouse automatically has the right to sue
  • Assuming adult children can file without being appointed as personal representative

Why This Matters: Without proper legal standing, your lawsuit will be dismissed regardless of its merits.

The Process:

  1. Someone must be appointed as personal representative through Surrogate's Court
  2. This requires filing a probate petition
  3. The court must issue "letters testamentary" (if there's a will) or "letters of administration" (if no will)
  4. Only then can the wrongful death lawsuit be filed

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Begin the estate administration process immediately
  • Work with an attorney to expedite the appointment when necessary
  • Resolve quickly any family disputes about who should serve as personal representative 
  • Don't let estate administration delays jeopardize your filing deadline

3. Missing the Notice of Claim Requirement for Government Defendants

The 90-Day Trap

The Hidden Deadline: When suing government entities, you must file a Notice of Claim within 90 days of the personal representative's appointment, in addition to the two-year lawsuit deadline.

Government Entities Include:

  • Cities, towns, villages, and counties
  • Public hospitals and healthcare facilities
  • Transit authorities (MTA, buses, subways)
  • Police departments
  • Fire departments
  • Public schools and universities
  • State agencies

Why Families Miss This:

  • Not knowing the requirement exists
  • Thinking the regular two-year deadline is sufficient
  • Focusing on the more obvious deadline and overlooking this critical step

The Consequence: Missing the Notice of Claim deadline permanently bars your lawsuit against the government entity, even if you file the wrongful death lawsuit within two years.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Identify all potential defendants immediately, including government entities
  • Serve Notice of Claims promptly via certified mail
  • Include all required information: date, location, circumstances, and damages sought
  • If you miss the 90-day window, immediately file a motion for permission to serve a late notice

4. Accepting Early Settlement Offers Without Legal Review

The Insurance Company Ambush

The Tactic: Insurance adjusters often contact grieving families within days of a death, offering quick settlements before families consult attorneys.

Why This Happens:

  • Insurance companies know that early settlements are usually much lower than full case value
  • Grief-stricken families may accept inadequate offers just to "get it over with"
  • Families don't understand the full extent of their losses
  • The offer may seem large to families unfamiliar with wrongful death valuations

Common Problems with Early Offers:

  • They rarely account for future lost earnings over a lifetime
  • They don't consider the full value of services the deceased provided
  • They ignore loss of parental guidance for children
  • They don't account for inflation and wage growth
  • They may not include all liable parties

Real Example: An insurance company offered a family $100,000 for the death of a 35-year-old teacher, claiming it was "generous." After consulting an attorney, the family learned their case was worth over $2 million in lost future earnings alone.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Never accept any settlement offer without consulting an experienced attorney
  • Direct all insurance company communications to your lawyer
  • Remember that initial offers are almost always far below actual case value
  • Understand that accepting any offer waives your right to pursue additional compensation

5. Overlooking Survival Action Claims

Missing Half of Your Potential Compensation

The Distinction: New York law provides two separate types of claims:

  • Wrongful Death Actions: Compensate family members for their losses
  • Survival Actions: Compensate the estate for the deceased's own suffering and losses

What Survival Actions Cover:

  • Pain and suffering the deceased experienced before death
  • Medical expenses related to the fatal injury
  • Lost wages during the period between injury and death
  • Punitive damages in appropriate cases

Why Families Miss This:

The Impact: Survival actions can add hundreds of thousands of dollars to a case, especially when the deceased lived for weeks or months after the initial injury.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

6. Handling Communications Without Legal Representation

Self-Sabotage Through Statements

The Risk: Anything you say to insurance adjusters, social media posts, or media interviews can be used against your case.

Common Statement Problems:

  • Admitting any fault on behalf of the deceased
  • Downplaying the impact of the death on the family
  • Providing information about the deceased's health or lifestyle
  • Making emotional statements that can be taken out of context

Social Media Dangers:

  • Posts showing family activities might be used to argue limited impact
  • Photos or comments about the deceased could be misinterpreted
  • Even well-meaning memorial posts can create legal problems

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Let your attorney handle all communications with insurance companies
  • Refer all media inquiries to your lawyer
  • Be extremely careful about social media posts
  • Educate all family members about the importance of controlled communications

7. Failing to Preserve Critical Evidence

The Disappearing Proof Problem

Evidence That Disappears Quickly:

Why Evidence Gets Lost:

  • Families don't know what evidence exists
  • No one takes immediate action to preserve it
  • Companies routinely destroy records after short periods
  • Accident scenes are cleaned up and changed

The Impact: Lost evidence can make it impossible to prove your case, even when negligence clearly occurred.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Contact an attorney immediately after the death
  • Take photographs of accident scenes, vehicles, and conditions
  • Identify and contact witnesses while memories are fresh
  • Have your attorney send preservation letters to all potential defendants
  • Act quickly—evidence disappears faster than you might think

8. Ignoring Comparative Negligence Issues

When the Defense Blames the Victim

New York's Comparative Negligence Rule: If the deceased contributed to their own death, damages can be reduced by their percentage of fault.

Common Defense Arguments:

  • The deceased wasn't wearing a seatbelt
  • The deceased was speeding or driving carelessly
  • The deceased ignored safety warnings or procedures
  • The deceased had been drinking or using drugs
  • The deceased didn't follow medical advice

Why This Matters: Even if the deceased was only 20% at fault, your damages are reduced by 20%. In a $1 million case, that's a $200,000 reduction.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Gather evidence showing the deceased acted reasonably
  • Document any safety training or compliance history
  • Challenge unfair characterizations of the deceased's conduct
  • Work with experts who can refute fault allegations
  • Present evidence of the defendant's gross negligence

9. Misunderstanding What Damages Are Available

The New York Limitation Problem

What You CAN Recover:

  • Lost future earnings and benefits
  • Medical expenses before death
  • Funeral and burial costs
  • Value of services the deceased provided
  • Loss of parental guidance for children (economic value only)

What You CANNOT Recover:

  • Grief, sorrow, or emotional suffering of survivors
  • Loss of companionship or consortium
  • Mental anguish of family members
  • Pain and suffering of survivors

Why This Matters: Families often expect compensation for emotional losses and are disappointed when they learn about New York's restrictions.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Understand the limitations before filing your case
  • Maximize economic damages with proper documentation
  • Consider survival actions for the deceased's pain and suffering
  • Work with economists to properly calculate future earnings
  • Stay informed about potential legislative changes

10. Family Conflicts That Derail Cases

When Grief Divides Families

Common Sources of Conflict:

  • Who should serve as personal representative
  • Whether to accept settlement offers
  • How to distribute any recovery
  • Which attorney to hire
  • Disagreements about the deceased's earning capacity

How Conflicts Hurt Cases:

  • Delays in appointing personal representatives
  • Missed filing deadlines due to family disputes
  • Weakened negotiating position with defendants
  • Court-ordered mediation that delays resolution
  • Forced acceptance of lower settlements

Real Example: A family spent 18 months fighting over who should be the personal representative. By the time they resolved the dispute, the statute of limitations had expired, and they lost a strong $3 million case.

How to Avoid This Mistake:

  • Address conflicts quickly through family meetings
  • Use mediation when necessary to resolve disputes
  • Consider appointing a neutral third party as personal representative
  • Focus on the common goal of obtaining justice
  • Don't let personal grievances override legal deadlines

Additional Critical Mistakes to Avoid

Not Hiring Experienced Wrongful Death Counsel

The Risk: Wrongful death cases involve complex legal, medical, and economic issues that require specialized expertise.

Why General Practice Isn't Enough:

  • Wrongful death law has unique procedural requirements
  • Economic damage calculations require specialized knowledge
  • Medical malpractice cases need specific expertise
  • Insurance companies use experienced defense attorneys

Choosing Attorneys Based Solely on Advertising

Red Flags:

  • Promises of specific monetary outcomes
  • High-pressure sales tactics
  • Unwillingness to explain their experience with wrongful death cases
  • No track record of successful wrongful death verdicts or settlements

Not Considering All Potential Defendants

Often Overlooked Defendants:

  • Employers who failed to provide safe working conditions
  • Property owners responsible for dangerous conditions
  • Manufacturers of defective products
  • Government entities responsible for road maintenance
  • Healthcare facilities in addition to individual doctors
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